Steven Van Zandt Jokes That the Key to His Successful 40-Year Marriage with Maureen Is ‘Staying Apart’

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  1. > “As I often say, the key to staying together is stay apart. We’ve been together, God, what is it now, 40-plus years and probably have spent about 10 years of that together out of the 40, because I’m always on the road. So, you go home, and it’s always new again,” the “Men Without Women” singer says.

    > “I think there is something to keeping one’s own identity. She’s a very, very strong person. She has a theater company. She’s the real actor in the family. She’s the real thing. Aside from her literary knowledge, she teaches acting to American Ballet Theater. She was a ballet dancer,” he says.

    > He continues, “I think finding a way to keep one’s identity and making sure that one plus one equals three rather than one plus one equals one-and-a-half, which you see all the time in relationships where people just start to lose their identity and compromise it in order to get along.”

  2. Good for them, I always love seeing non-traditional relationship structures succeed. It’s surprising how judgemental people can be if your lifestyle doesn’t fit a specific mold.

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